HOW TO STYLE THICK HAIR
Styling Inspiration for Thick Hair
After many years of struggle, experimentation and longing for fine care-free hair I snapped out of denial and embraced what nature had bestowed me with. The volume I heard those with fine hair cry out for, I admittedly had an abundance of, I too, like it or not, had the curl and wave they were endlessly trying to recreate with tongs and then weeping if it fell out too quickly. One day I pulled my socks up and sought out a routine that fit me personally. Self acceptance and forgiveness of your parents wrongdoing are after all, key in recovery from trauma.
It begins with where you glean your inspiration from. I’m sorry to break it to you, that the pictures of Kate moss’s choppy layers are only going to cause you hair dysmorphia and a constant nagging feeling that you aren’t quite up to standard. Leave the struggle behind, instead, fuel your follicle innovation with images and advice from the Amal Clooney’s, the Megan Markle’s, but though she’s a powerful woman, probably best leave Cher out of this round.
The Right Hair Care Routine
Next, now you’ve armed yourself with appropriate inspo it’s time to establish a routine, a muscle memory, a ritual if you prefer. The key to stress free styling is working your hair around your life, and not vice versa. Always remember whether your embracing natural curls, sleek straight or Hollywood waves; you control it, it doesn’t control you. Whether you’ve choppy curly layers or long thick hair, You got this.
You probably won’t need to over wash your hair, as with thicker textures it can tend to dry out more readily. I’d suggest twice a week or whenever you feel it needs it. The trick to being able to go longer between washes is in how you shampoo.
The Best Products for Thick Hair and How to Use Them
It is tempting to head straight for the heavy creamy products, like dry remedy, Nutriplenish deep, cherry almond. But though the ends are often dry, the scalp and roots can still become oily and overloaded. Treat the roots as a separate head from the mid lengths and ends. I have found lighter shampoos perfectly competent at giving me a deep cleanse for my roots but not weighing them down and making them feel greasy 1-2 days after my home spa session. For this I’d opt for Be curly, Sap Moss, Nutriplenish light, or even colour conserve.
Some people with curly hair co-wash, using conditioner in place of shampoo, or a specially designed product. I personally find nothing wrong with a classic 2 shampoos, and one conditioner, if my hair is feeling especially dry I’ll put a treatment on, like the dry remedy mask. For most, once every other week is more than enough.
Now, the conditioner calls. In my regular routine I do use a deep conditioner, like I said before I treat the mid lengths and ends with separate attention. Be curly, dry remedy, sap moss, Nutriplenish deep. All are worthy candidates.
I tend to stick my head out of the shower, (after turning it off of course to conserve water) and towel dry my hair, I apply no more than a 50p piece worth of product, and I comb through. Yes it does make a difference if you use your fingers because you left your come on the other side of the house. I use a wide tooth comb. Rather conveniently it’s handle curves round so I can hook it in the shower. That humble innovation has spared me many a freezing dash across the house.
A note on the amount of product you’re using…more is not always more. With shampoo and conditioner, you only ever need that small 50p size. Some people I’ve come across absolutely slap it on, I too hold my hand up and have been guilty of this in the past. Aveda’s range in particular are concentrated solutions, meaning a little goes a long way. I know it can be tempting when you feel overwhelmed by your hair’s dryness. But the solution lies in choosing the right product for you, not in slathering any old contender on.
On exiting the bathroom in a glowing plume of steam, I will next apply a leave in conditioner. For a simple life, and not over complicating for the sake of it (I will never understand the psyche of those with 12 step daily facial routines) products like Nutriplenish leave in conditioner, and damage remedy hair repair have an added heat protection.
When I don’t have time to be carefully primping and preening myself, because I’m a woman with a life to live, I am grateful for this one trick wonder. This also provides you with a thermal layer around your cuticle, so should you have the time or volition to heat style, your hair is protected, and will go on shining until the end of time.
Different Styling Routines for Thick Hair
My styling routine is a three pronged approach to my busy London life. Occasionally I will challenge myself and attempt a new styling technique, but only when I am in a strong mentally healthy place and able to take the bitter sting of failure in my stride.
My three options are: natural air dried curls, smooth blow dry with movement in the ends, and braid’n’go. The first, are the speediest of the lot, perfect for when I don’t have time to be mucking about with round brushes in the morning, but when I’m in dire need of a good scrub. Secondly, often an evening or weekend pursuit, this says, I’ve thought about what I’m doing tomorrow and I’ve planned ahead. Finally, braids work well either before bed setting hair wet, or throughout the day, taming the volume and giving you a seventies, boho, women’s lib vibe.
These styles see me and my thick tresses through pretty much anything life throws at us!